tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7367477092015587062.post6133665332145950456..comments2024-03-11T16:40:35.847+05:30Comments on Nilu's Natter: MarriageNiluhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13881009190943901923noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7367477092015587062.post-30958514893954008412013-09-10T13:41:58.358+05:302013-09-10T13:41:58.358+05:30Love Astrology in Hindi “Love is like a friendship...Love Astrology in Hindi “Love is like a friendship caught on fire.” –Bruce Lee This week has one of the luckiest-in-love aspects as romantic Venus aligns with generous Jupiter on May 28. Since this romantic link occurs in the cheeky sign of Gemini, there’s likely to be lots of witty …. <br />Mohan Lal Ji Maharajhttp://www.astrologylovemarriage.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7367477092015587062.post-79431016217666178492011-04-25T06:56:14.543+05:302011-04-25T06:56:14.543+05:30Nice blog dear I like your blog its looking so co...Nice blog dear I like your blog its looking so cool according to blog theme. I would like to join your blog again and again. <a href="http://aryasamajmarriage.in/" rel="nofollow">Arya Samaj Mandir in Delhi|</a>, <a href="http://aryasamajmarriage.in/" rel="nofollow">Love Marriage in Delhi</a>Bharathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06128946834986023257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7367477092015587062.post-82927747196436554142011-04-16T14:58:22.054+05:302011-04-16T14:58:22.054+05:30Nice blog and nice information which shared by the...Nice blog and nice information which shared by the blog owner I want to say thanks to this blog owner. <a href="http://aryasamajmandir.org/" rel="nofollow">love marriage in Gurgaon</a>, <a href="http://aryasamajmandir.org/" rel="nofollow">Marriage registration Delhi</a>Harveerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15686034220423591308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7367477092015587062.post-59924888335346706512008-11-18T13:08:00.000+05:302008-11-18T13:08:00.000+05:30Marriage is an incompletely defined system. Hence ...Marriage is an incompletely defined system. <BR/><BR/>Hence there are issues in its execution. <BR/><BR/>Our great Indian ancestors designed an "unplanned-way-in" and "difficult-way-out" system where they should have been concentrating on "easy-way-in" and "easy-way-out" system.Serial Thrillerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15352539617601164454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7367477092015587062.post-91151127251408359172008-09-14T23:37:00.000+05:302008-09-14T23:37:00.000+05:30Hi Nilu!Ur post says it all...ur thoughts, ur expe...Hi Nilu!<BR/><BR/>Ur post says it all...ur thoughts, ur experience...<BR/><BR/>M being terribly pushed by people around me to tie the knot as I have reached the marriagable age! but m kinda very sceptical about it for the same reasons u have written..commitment, gelling up with a stranger n his family, temperaments, habits etc etc etc...<BR/><BR/>i guess ur post will act as a tranquilizer for my worries ...:)state of mind?https://www.blogger.com/profile/18135275196606647902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7367477092015587062.post-1037577391737280232008-09-04T23:41:00.000+05:302008-09-04T23:41:00.000+05:30Our ancesters were very intelligent people who dev...Our ancesters were very intelligent people who devised 'marriage'. I believe, this has a little to do with the two individuals who get married, but more to do with the continuation of our race. Marriage is a commitment, like they say 'till death do us part'. It cannot work any other way, because marriage is a roller coaster ride, the difference is only the diameter of the wheel. You can get on it of your own free will, but you can only get off it safely when the wheel stops, otherwise you are likely to get deeply hurt. <BR/><BR/>Imagine, two individuals with two independent brains, two independent lifestyles, two independent value systems, backgrounds and so on coming together to live under one roof at a reasonably mature age.....guess what, who is going to change...both need to. The only one thing that both of the partners have in common is love for the offspring, because it is 'theirs'-something they have brought into this universe together. Human child is the most fragile. Watch animal kingdom and you will realise the truth about this. This child needs both parents throughout its life .......and marriage is the only institution that provides this framework. Arranged or love....take your pick... the aim is the same in both cases. More later....my wife is calling me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7367477092015587062.post-62513510961429847692008-04-23T23:44:00.000+05:302008-04-23T23:44:00.000+05:30Dear Nilu,You said in your email that I didn't com...Dear Nilu,<BR/><BR/>You said in your email that I didn't comment on your marriage blog. There is a perfectly reasonable explanation for that. It was pretty much perfect. I comment on a blog when I have something to add to it. I couldn't have added a single sentence to this blog to make it more perfect. And after a point, it becomes tedious to read a bunch of remarks saying "That was really good" :) But you hit the nail on the head with this post saying a lot of things I have always thought.<BR/><BR/>ShrutiShrutihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06375913774968016474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7367477092015587062.post-85014142860274178052008-04-21T03:22:00.000+05:302008-04-21T03:22:00.000+05:30Nilu - That was a very insightful article. Could n...Nilu - That was a very insightful article. Could not agree more.<BR/>Especially like the statement - Marriage is a journey, not a destination..Gayatri Karthik Gayatri Sivaramanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17199038778326760370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7367477092015587062.post-84664279654825904812008-04-21T03:21:00.000+05:302008-04-21T03:21:00.000+05:30This comment has been removed by the author.Gayatri Karthik Gayatri Sivaramanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17199038778326760370noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7367477092015587062.post-18615986851974064692008-04-02T07:45:00.000+05:302008-04-02T07:45:00.000+05:30Nilu, Thanks for a very thought provoking blog.The...Nilu, Thanks for a very thought provoking blog.<BR/><BR/>There is nothing wrong about "love marriages" but don't you think it is always better to fall in love with some one, whom your parents and friends met and approved <BR/><BR/>When we fall in love, EMOTIONS will take over and LOGIC & REASON will take a second place. <BR/><BR/>So it is always nice to have some one else with JUDGMENTAL eyes to watch over, so that marriage will be a great success.<BR/><BR/>It is sad but true, many times the moment you say I DO, after wedding your spouse will tell you I DON'T.Ed Vishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10155857506270305895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7367477092015587062.post-62688486191548655442008-03-28T14:52:00.000+05:302008-03-28T14:52:00.000+05:30Sounds very practical :)I will post another commen...Sounds very practical :)<BR/><BR/>I will post another comment...may be after 2-3 years based on my experience :DNarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08064805632128679609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7367477092015587062.post-30990894348191538722008-03-13T17:38:00.000+05:302008-03-13T17:38:00.000+05:30thanks, veena! Am glad you liked it. I've wanted t...thanks, veena! Am glad you liked it. I've wanted to write about it for sometime.Niluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13881009190943901923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7367477092015587062.post-45661723704235822082008-03-13T12:36:00.000+05:302008-03-13T12:36:00.000+05:30Neel, Gosh ! That was really good ! My sentiments ...Neel, Gosh ! That was really good ! My sentiments exactly.. I loved the last para "But the only way a marriage will survive is if both the partners ensure that they are the "right" person for each other. No astrology, horoscope match, or any science, superstition or person can guarantee the success of your marriage. The only people who can are you and your partner. It is immaterial how you met your partner - whether by love or through relatives - what matters is what you do "after" the ceremony to make the marriage work. And believe me, making the marriage work is a life-time task. "Until death do us apart, in sickness and in health" is not a joke. It is a life-time commitment that thrives on healthy doses of love and affection, constant communication, lot of understanding and forgiveness, a short memory and long periods of "alone" time. A successful or healthy marriage is not one where there are no fights, but one where the couple has the openness to indulge in a good fight and then get on with life as if nothing happened."Veenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11189423654517551838noreply@blogger.com